How to get your ex back and move forward is a difficult thing to figure out when someone has been hurt. Most likely it was both of you who were hurt and both of you who did the hurting. Forgiveness is essential to any relationship being mended and has to happen if you want to know how to win your ex back.
Learning how to get your ex back is going to involve learning humility on both sides. Being selfish is what got your relationship in trouble at the beginning. You decided that the individual was more important than what you two had as a couple.
People make mistakes. It is true that some mistakes are too big to overcome but most mistakes that people make in relationships are trivial. They are also made in the heat of the moment and often times can be exaggerated. Realize that it is easy for someone to say or do the wrong thing when they aren’t thinking clearly.
If you have had the wrong thing said or done to you, think of the context. What was going on around that time that made things as bad as what it got? Was there something going on in one of your lives outside of the relationship that brought unnecessary strain? If you can recognize what it was you have a chance to learn how to get your ex back.
If you had your pride and feelings hurt by the actions of another, can you forgive them? Can you suck back in your pride and realize that it was a mistake and what you had was greater than the incidents that drove you apart? Can you be willing to forgive it and let it go? You will have to learn how to do this if you want to know how to get your ex back.
If you hurt someone dear to you, you need to suck back in your pride as well. Realize that you made a mistake. Own it and take responsibility for your actions. If it is important to you to know how to get back your ex then you have to realize that there are things that you are going to have to correct in the way that you handle situations. If there is some problem or mistake that you keep making, get counseling or some kind of help. Don’t expect that you can continue to do the same thing over and over and expect different results.
Be able to approach each other with humility, not holding yourself up over the other person. Stop thinking that you are too big to come back and say, “I’m sorry.” When someone says to you that they are sorry don’t hold it over them and say, “Yeah, you should be.” Decide that what you have as a couple is more important than the problems that came and decide to work together as a team to overcome them. If you do this then you have found how to get your ex back.
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Tuesday, August 30, 2011
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Be That Guy That Picks The Right Gifts Finally
So this is the official first blog of That Guy's Gifts so I guess that means an introduction and background.
We created the site www.thatguysgifts.com in order to help men find the best gift to give their wives and girlfriends. That was the original idea because it became very clear to me one day...I sent some flowers and a designer bag to my wife's job out of the blue. The response she recieved from her co-workers and work friends made me hear that a lot of women are not happy with the show of affection from today's man.
How many times have you been driving down the street and saw a plastic covered gift basket...maybe for Valentines Day or Mother's Day? A quick fix for those that forget special days. Man..we are here for you...to help you not only pick the right gifts, but to get them to your woman in time.
But buying gifts is only part of the solution, you need to be on top of your relationship game. Most of us dive into books about our job profession, favorite sports, and other interests...but how much time do we put into understanding our woman, lovemaking, and such...
We want to give you all you need to be THE MAN..or as we say That Guy...
Women are the social species...and they do sit around and compare notes on their men. We are also compared to each other and unfairly to the men on romantic movies. Just like men compare sex and looks...they compare how we communicate, what we buy them, where we take them, the size of diamonds and more...
A long time ago I decided I would be the guy whose woman would brag on her man. The one the others would ask "Does he have a brother?" That does wonders to your relationship...your woman comes home ready to give you her all...appreciative of all you have done and said.
So thats how life is for a few of us...with divorce rates over 50% and the challenge of finding a good woman to date, a lot of you must have had some bumpy times with women. Good thing is the equation is one to one...you can have control over what outcomes you want with women..
By becoming the best you...developing the real man inside of you...you will have the love you deserve...and then picking the right gifts will be a walk in the park...
So come join us...we plan on being around for sometime. We will have a monthly newsletter coming with ring buying guides, tips on birthday presents, what women want in bed, buying gifts based on her personality and more.
This blog is raw and uncut...straight from the dome so be easy on it. Of course once you are a member, if you benefit from our site feel free to send an email or a video and we will post it...
That Guys Gifts
We created the site www.thatguysgifts.com in order to help men find the best gift to give their wives and girlfriends. That was the original idea because it became very clear to me one day...I sent some flowers and a designer bag to my wife's job out of the blue. The response she recieved from her co-workers and work friends made me hear that a lot of women are not happy with the show of affection from today's man.
How many times have you been driving down the street and saw a plastic covered gift basket...maybe for Valentines Day or Mother's Day? A quick fix for those that forget special days. Man..we are here for you...to help you not only pick the right gifts, but to get them to your woman in time.
But buying gifts is only part of the solution, you need to be on top of your relationship game. Most of us dive into books about our job profession, favorite sports, and other interests...but how much time do we put into understanding our woman, lovemaking, and such...
We want to give you all you need to be THE MAN..or as we say That Guy...
Women are the social species...and they do sit around and compare notes on their men. We are also compared to each other and unfairly to the men on romantic movies. Just like men compare sex and looks...they compare how we communicate, what we buy them, where we take them, the size of diamonds and more...
A long time ago I decided I would be the guy whose woman would brag on her man. The one the others would ask "Does he have a brother?" That does wonders to your relationship...your woman comes home ready to give you her all...appreciative of all you have done and said.
So thats how life is for a few of us...with divorce rates over 50% and the challenge of finding a good woman to date, a lot of you must have had some bumpy times with women. Good thing is the equation is one to one...you can have control over what outcomes you want with women..
By becoming the best you...developing the real man inside of you...you will have the love you deserve...and then picking the right gifts will be a walk in the park...
So come join us...we plan on being around for sometime. We will have a monthly newsletter coming with ring buying guides, tips on birthday presents, what women want in bed, buying gifts based on her personality and more.
This blog is raw and uncut...straight from the dome so be easy on it. Of course once you are a member, if you benefit from our site feel free to send an email or a video and we will post it...
That Guys Gifts
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